⭒❤︎for the women who feel like they don’t belong❤︎⭒
✨Life is worth living. And you are so beautiful, exactly as you are.✨
from me, to you
♡Hi! I'm Gaozong Yang♡
The Heart’s Desire Practitioner
I’m a Hmong American woman, very intuitive, a creative, a storyteller, a dancer, and a super lover of dramas (Korean, Chinese, Thai Lakorns, Hmong movies & Bollywood romance films), music, mangas, food, hiking, life adventures, and yummy desserts!!! PLUS! I LOVE ALL YOU CAN EAT BUFFETS!!
I related so deeply to the villainess arc, the women in anime/mangas and Chinese dramas who were misunderstood, judged, dismissed before anyone truly knew their hearts, and painted as the villain in someone else’s eyes. Yet instead of abandoning themselves to be accepted, they chose to stand in their truth, protect what mattered to them, and keep moving forward despite rejection, loneliness, and heartbreak.
Those women felt like me. I wanted to believe that a woman could stay true to herself, be deeply seen for who she really was, and still find love, belonging, genuine friendships, and a life that felt right for her.
For much of my own life, I looked outside myself for answers. I was told who I should be, what was “best” for me, and which path I should follow until I could no longer tell the difference between my own voice and everyone else’s. Learning to trust myself again has been one of the most meaningful parts of my journey. No matter how frustrating it felt for me and sometimes challening, I had the desire for myself to be heard by me. I wanted to stand up for myself and speak what is true for me and it’s felt so empowering (fun too). Today, this is the space I want to create for others: a place where you are supported and can connect with yourself, hear your voice and desires and live your life true to you.
You Don't Have to Abandon Yourself to Get Along
I know because I had to learn that too.
I've been sitting with my body for over 12 years.
Not in a "perfect posture, clear mind" kind of way. In a what is that? kind of way. The chills that moved through me in certain moments. The waves of energy that showed up in specific areas of my body. I genuinely wanted to understand, what is this? What is my body actually saying right now?
And then the questions got more uncomfortable.
Like, why did my hand move forward to shake someone's at a club when I didn't even want to? Not a work situation. A club. My hand just went, like it already knew the social script before I could object.
Or at a retreat, when someone I'd never met came in for a hug, someone I genuinely did not want to hug, I still opened my arms.
Or the time my hairdresser burned my ear with the flat iron. I felt the pain. I felt the anger rise up. Yes, I said "ow that hurts" looking at her, with her replying "oh sorry.." then she continued still styling my hair, and me staying there in the chair. And when it was done, I paid her. Even tipped her. And walked out, having bypassed the anger and hurt from my right ear.
I kept doing the "right" thing at the expense of myself. I kept finding ways to abandon me, so that other people stayed comfortable, so I wouldn't be the difficult one, so no one would see me as the bad guy.
What I've come to deeply understand, through over 12 years of meditation and learning the language of my own body, through somatic approaches to healing, through embodied intimacy and relationship training, plus through Voice Dialogue training, is that there is nothing wrong with me. It's a learned pattern. And it can be unlearned.
I've taught myself that I don't have to abandon me to get along. That it's okay if someone sees me as the bad guy for having a boundary. That those chills, those waves, that tightening, it's me, communicating. And I get to listen.
This is why I became the Heart's Desire Practitioner. I want to see women having fun enjoying the life they live and feeling good about themselves having the support not needing to do life alone. Because it can get so tiring, scary sometimes, confusing and frustrating. Being the one to do it all for yourself and by yourself can take a toll on you which is why I want to support you and so many other women all over the world. We don't have to do it all.
The Experience of Working With Me
As the Heart's Desire Practitioner, I genuinely love creating experiences where someone gets to feel safe, be themselves, and actually have fun.
When you're with me, you're going to be challenged. You're going to be encouraged. I want the best for you. Even with the uncomfortable feelings or moments, the unfamiliar and what feels challenging, I'm here with you every step of the way.
I bring together somatic approaches to healing trauma, intimacy and relationship coaching, Voice Dialogue training, and my own natural intuition, so we can work with what's actually happening in your body, in your patterns, in your relationships, and in what you actually desire. I'm about the experience you experience being with me.
Voice Dialogue in particular opened up something powerful for me: the understanding that we are not one single voice. We are made up of many parts, some primary, some disowned, and the parts that have been silenced the longest often hold the most truth about who we actually are. When you work with me, we get to hear those parts. Together.
My somatic training means we don't just talk about what's happening, we feel into it. What does it feel like in your body when you want to say no and don't? What sensations come up when you're about to betray yourself to keep the peace?
Because of my own practice and these trainings, I can support you in building the kind of relationship with yourself where you notice. Where you pause. Where you listen to the chills, the tightening, the wave of energy that says this isn't a yes, and where you trust that signal enough to honor it, even when it's uncomfortable. Even when someone might see you as the bad guy. Even then.
That is the work. And I know it from the inside out. I will be attentive and fully present with you. Undivided attention. Here.
And here's something I want you to know, because this matters:
This work isn't just about finding your calm. It isn't just about peace and stillness and going ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Yes, I love the calm. I do. But at times I also need to move! I need to shake, dance, twirl around, jump up and down. Punch a pillow. Scream out loud, or make any sound that expresses what I'm actually feeling in my body in that moment. We MOVE our body here!
Because it's also about feeling and acknowledging the other emotions and sensations in our body. The ones that aren't soft or quiet. The ones that are big, and loud, and real, alive and maybe uncomfortable. The anger. The grief. The frustration. The joy that is so full it has to go somewhere. Sometimes what they need isn't stillness, but expression.
Working with me means there is space for all of this. The calm and the moving. The peace and the twirl. The breath and the scream. Because you are not one note. You are the whole song, and we get to play all of it! PLUS some fun oracle cards too, with me always using my intuition in our time together. Just walking up to someone and talking, I've noticed I would get hits of images, or messages, which is something I will naturally incorporate if and when anything pops up!
Do you want to live a more fun life, one you actually enjoy? Reconnecting to yourself, and to the parts of you that got quiet because you wanted to get along, be liked, be loved. Reconnecting to the playful you, the one who's curious, who wants to have fun, who wants to do the things she actually likes.
A lot of us want this, and we tell ourselves we're too old, or she'll judge me, or no, this is just who I am, when really we just told ourselves to be a certain way and kept ourselves there. Working with me, you get to question that, and actually take action, exploring and being honest with yourself. Because we don't do life alone. We live life together.
That's why it matters so much who you choose to have in your life, who you choose to get support from. I hope to be one of the good ones you choose.
Who I Work With + What I Can Support You On
I work exclusively with women.
I'm here for the woman who feels things deeply and is finding her way back to herself. Whether that's learning to feel good in your body, creating a life that's genuinely fun and true to who you are, building boundaries that actually feel like yours, or navigating relationships with more honesty and less self-erasure.
Here's what I'm here for with you:
- Feeling at home in your body and actually liking being there
- Learning to feel and trust your body's own sensations, the ground under your feet, the chills, the tightening, what a real yes or no feels like
- Reconnecting to yourself, creating deeper intimacy and closeness, your real self, not the version you built for other people so you'd be accepted, liked, loved (the parts of you that have been silenced, hiding, forgotten, and really want to be heard, where we get real honest about what we want and don't want in our life and relationships)
- Learning that you can make mistakes and it doesn't mean you're bad or something is wrong with you
- Having boundaries that support you, make you feel empowered
- Making your daily life more fun, more you, more alive
- Navigating relationships, with friends, family, and romantic partners
- Finding and trusting your voice, actually living your truth, not performing to get by
- That ache of feeling like you don't belong anywhere, in your culture, your relationships, spaces online or in person
- Catching the moment your hand reaches out, your voice says "sure," or your smile shows up automatically, before you've actually checked in with whether that's a real yes. And learning that you're allowed to pause right there, before your body reacts on autopilot
- Living the fun, playful, curious life you actually want, not the version you've told yourself you're allowed to have
- Questioning the patterns that keep you small, and actually doing something different, not just thinking about it
- Knowing that you don't have to do this by yourself
intimate 1:1
Private Sessions with Gaozong
Just you and me. A private space where you can slow down, all for you that welcomes everything having to do with you.
I'm very intuitive, I know what's being said beyond the words. I pick up on your energy, and on what's actually wanting to be heard, what's underneath, what you don't yet see or hear in yourself. Throughout our time together, I stay open to whatever wants to come through, a message, an image, a word, and when it shows up, I'll share it with you. I won't promise it happens every session, but it finds its way in when it does 🙂
Come with an open heart and an open mind. Your heart's desires are meant to be known and enjoyed.
Each session will be up to 1 hour and 30 minutes. Some sessions use the whole time, while some find the place to end at the hour, and both are exactly right. I always hold the fuller time first so there's never a rush, and I'm with you paying attention the whole way through to how you're doing and what you need in that moment. You get all the time you need, and nothing feels cut short.
All About Me Session
One session, entirely yours, with no pressure to decide what comes next.
The you who is waiting to be met, who follows your heart, your rhythm in this life. The beauty and bountiful richness of you that is to be felt, seen, and experienced.
- Space to be seen, everything that comes up in the body, the confusion, the uncomfortable, the emotions, the vulnerability, your truths are all accepted and welcomed
- Supported by practices and tools that best support you, ranging from somatic work, parts work, intuitive guidance, inner child work, body movement, and more
- Virtual, open to you anywhere. Twin Cities Metro, Minnesota clients: we are virtual for now while I get a regular in-person space set up
The Bloom Experience 🌸
Five sessions to build real momentum, with the same depth of support as the full month.
5 × $200 sessions, with 6% off the full total, averages to $188/session.
You save $60Five sessions gives us real room to build something together, not just one moment of insight, but a thread you get to keep pulling. For this option you receive the exact same support as the full Month Experience.
- 5 × 90-60 min sessions
- Weekday messaging access between sessions, for support, what's coming up for you, reflections. This is here to hold you between sessions, not to replace one, our real work still happens in session
- Fully personalized for you uniquely
- Virtual, open to you anywhere. Twin Cities Metro, Minnesota clients: we are virtual for now while I get a regular in-person space set up
The Everlasting Experience 🌸
A season to give to yourself, the kind you carry and that spreads into the rest of your life. Choose 1, 4, or 6 months together.
$200 per session, no matter which length you choose.
However long you choose, the rhythm stays the same: 2 sessions per week, each 90-60 minutes long, over the month(s), depending on the Everlasting Experience duration you choose.
1 Month: 8 total sessions
4 Months: 32 total sessions
6 Months: 48 total sessions
- Weekday messaging access between sessions, for support, what's coming up for you, reflections. This is here to hold you between sessions, not to replace one, our real work still happens in session
- Fully personalized for you uniquely
- Virtual, open to you anywhere. Twin Cities Metro, Minnesota clients: we are virtual for now while I get a regular in-person space set up
The aim is 2 sessions a week, so your Everlasting Experience moves with real momentum, whichever length you choose. And if a week ever calls for just 1, that's completely okay, we simply adjust the pace so all your sessions still happen, just over a bit more time.
Once you make your purchase, you'll be taken straight to my booking calendar to pick your session time, it shows up right after checkout, so you can grab your spot the same moment you say yes.
Love Notes
